I removed the post about Megs and J because I obviously could not state my question right. Oh..........and it's my blog and I can;););););)
Megs and J ONLY do what they do because they feel it is right for them and never expect a pat on the back or to have other's believe in it.
I know as Megs Mom I ask them all the time and encourage an open environment to talk about what they are up to. I think that is the way it should be for moms and dads. Children don't ask to be born and I have always and will till the day I die believe that parents are to show an interest in their children and create an environment where the children, regardless of age, feel loved and encouraged and I'm sticking to it;) Thank you all for weighing in:) Peace!